Paige Bierma Nothing is more irritating to author Connie Goldman than the stereotypes out there about older people and sex -- especially the one about seniors not having sex. It may not be that very hot passionate feeling that you had when you were 19, but it certainly isn't gone, Goldman said. A poll conducted by the AARP found that sexual desire runs deep among people in their 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond. At any age, sex can help strengthen intimate relationships while easing stress and boosting overall health. For seniors, sex can also restore feelings of vitality, says Erica Goodstone, PhD, a certified sex therapist and licensed mental health counselor, who works with many older couples and singles.
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