Let's be real: It's easy for a long-term relationship to turn stale, which is why I've created an official roundup of allllll the things that belong on your sex bucket list. You're gonna want to bookmark this baby. First, let's review why you should have a sex bucket list in the first place. Spicing up your sex life helps keep your entire relationship fresh and exciting, says Janet BritoPhD, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist in Honolulu, Hawaii. If you're not down to try something out, that's cool! Just make sure you're regularly checking in with your partner to make sure they're satisfied with the sex you've been having together, too.