Suddenly, people everywhere realized, Hey, it could actually be really hot to be the submissive in a relationship. Are you obsessed with the idea of having a Master who orders you around? Then you'd likely get pretty excited over being the submissive, as I am. And if you're more the domineering type, however, then maybe having someone to bend to your will is what gets you hot and bothered. I was unbelievably excited to get started, not only because it would push me from my comfort zone sexually, but also because it was new and exciting. After some serious negotiations in regards to what was and wasn't allowed on both sides, we began to assume our roles as Dominant and Submissive through text. Now, we both agreed that neither of us would ever want to assume these kinky roles with life partners as they are mentally and emotionally demanding on both parties — but the rewards for each of us in regards to giving up and taking complete control are intoxicating. So without further ado, here's how to be dominant over text as shown in 8 kinky sexting examples to me, a sub, from my real-life Dom.
The act of being submissive is not what people assume it to be. In the Oxford Dictionary , acquiescence is defined as, The action of accepting or yielding to a a cut above force or to the will before authority of another person. And that's where Oxford is wrong. Submission is not forced upon anyone, it is a choice. Those who become acquiescent have chosen, by themselves, to accept their partner to control them. So as to has many variations. They can be submissive only in their homes before only during sex.