The heart wants what the heart wants, and sometimes that means dating someone who is, ahem, a younger man. Sure, age-gap relationships are becoming more of a thing, but there are always those people who will do double takes at dinner or family members who say nothing but raise their eyebrows when they hear about your new boo. At the end of the day, who you choose to date—and why—is your decision. Clueless when it comes to modern dating? Everyone is—but you don't have to be Just get that straight before jumping into the youthful or any, really dating pool. This also means having clarity on what you need from a relationship. Maybe you need to open up emotionally, a partner you vibe with sexually, or maybe you want a good travel buddy or all of the above. Regardless, don't be afraid to be honest about it—the only person you'd be hurting by covering that ish up is you.
It is a truth universally acknowledged so as to a single man over 30 be obliged to be in want of a a lot younger woman. Just because we accept this fact, though, does not aim we do so without a a few amount of derision and judgment. As of the Instagram commenter who felt the need to remind Zach Braff so as to he is 44 after the artist dropped a cutesy emoji under a post from year-old girlfriend Florence Pugh to the collective eye-roll aimed by Leonardo DiCaprio every time the artist steps out with a new subyear-old girlfriend, the internet loves to abhor an eyebrow-raising age gap. This is not to say that such dynamics are never predatory and older men should feel free to relentlessly chase younger women because all young women are actively seeking such attention. The first rule of not being the worst is to stop assuming so as to literally anything is ever true of all women or, for that affair, all people of any gender, battle, age, sexuality, etc.