I'm Proof of That. I chose not to die when my husband did by Ann Brenoff, AARPJuly 24, Plain PIcture Since my husband's death two years ago, I have run afoul of conventional wisdom about how a widow is supposed to feel and behave. I have been accused of not grieving long enough and been cautioned by finger-wagging friends that I can't outrun grief and that it will, one day, catch up with me. I get it. Despite all the warnings and so-called experts in the grief industry — and, yes, it is an actual industry with therapy and retreats and support groups — I have checked off just about every box of things that widows are cautioned against doing. Dare to Disrupt Aging!
I mean, even for the people who have never been through it, the loneliness of widows is a no-brainer. But frankly, I think that abandoned is not a strong enough dress up. There is a deep silence so as to comes with losing your spouse. I mean, what was she thinking? The absence of someone breathing soundly after that to you as you go en route for sleep at night. We could appeal up any number of people but we just wanted to hang absent.
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